Please copy and paste and send without my email address, but please share. People need to know what damage is being done both by extreme Islamophobia advocates and by the extreme leftist, let's hold hands and love each other, advocates....

The first cause death every day and do not care, since they make good bucks of people's fears. The second are validating their own notions and using these willing victims who think they are doing good to raise funds and funnel info and money to terrorists.

Co-excistence is great, but let's be realistic and not fool ourselves here...

So, how do we know the difference and who do we trust? I've spoken in details on how to spot who is playing the"CAIR" and others games and wants to pull the wool over your eyes, and how to know who to trust and work with. It's not always those who scream anti Islamic rhetoric that are to be trusted; these people are appeasing and validating the current fear in order to separate you from your money, and absolutely not yielding any results. At the end of the day, they validate the hate and paranoia of those who blame the West and see the need to enforce Islamic sharia because it is the only way to muzzle them, and they validate the fear of those who are concerned with the growth of Islam in the West.

They offer no solution, play the media circus and manage to affirm the terrorists' beliefs without changing anyone's opinion. Also, it is not are those who have a tattoo on their forehead of the American flag either; actions peak louder than words or tattoos.....

Test the"moderates"; find out if their children and their immediate families are close friends with non Muslims, and I mean close friends; sleep overs, shopping together, exchange make up tips and even cloths at times, and not that they hold hands on interfaith"Barney style" meetings.

Regardless of what the nature of your relationship is, mention Israel over and over. Speak about Israel as you would your favorite store in the mall;"I love the Israeli falafel; my fifteenth cousin trillion times removed bought an orange from Israel in Lala land; I lost a bracelet that had a star of David that was a gift from a little Israeli shop in Texas; there was a real cute program from Israel about cats and dogs in Jerusalem; boy those Israelis can make cell phones......"

If the answers are"These is Palestinian oranges; those Jews are everywhere taking our money even in Texas; they treat cats and dogs better than humans; they make cell phones so they can have access to all electronics and spy on the universe, or anything, anything at all short of saying I would love to try some of their products or I have a product from Israel and it is really good, or my Israeli friends gave me XYZ and it was great....." Anything that doesn't sound like a casual pleasant conversation and seems to make them uncomfortable, LEAVE.....

Discuss the economy and if"Israel gets all of our tax money" LEAVE....

ANY I mean ANY strong defensiveness when speaking of the history of the Mid East and the fact that non Muslims were not always treated equally (Had to pay taxes, were not allowed to build new places of worship...." Muslims took over some countries, such as Spain, Non Muslims contribution to science and medicine, Jerusalem and its significance to OTHER faiths.... Anything that is historically documented and they become uncomfortable and defensive towards without willing to hear and discuss your point of view, LEAVE....

Refusing to admit that EVERYONE has the right to freedom of expression and speech just like them. Non Muslims have as much right to criticize Islam as they do when criticizing other religions; Radio hosts may have been right in something they said, but they have the right to their opinion, just AS MUSLIMS have the right to speak up against the US government or Israel or Jews or anything else... LEAVE......

Conspiracy theories; the Muslim world has corruption ONLY because of the influence of the West; The US does everything to appease Israel, including going into wars; Pepsi/Coke whatever, is being sent to the Mid East with an ingredient that will make them unable to have children; Islam has been changed and corrupted (especially when terrorism is the topic) because the West, Jews; Israel, the British invasion.... made it like that; Islam would have been saved by Muslims and all Muslims would have been rich and well educated but the West is doing everything to keep them oppressed....LEAVE.....

Anything that implies that they are victims of the outsiders, ANYTHING that means they are entitled to be angry and react, ANYTHING. These are justification of terrorism and manifestation of the yearning for a true Islamic"world." Be careful of the leftist attitude towards that and the"sympathy" you may show. In their minds it is an admission of guilt and validation of what they feel. They will not think that you are so nice to be on their side, they will see it as a victory on their part, because they made you admit what you have DONE and what you KNOW to be a fact. If they can take over, you'll be the first to go....

Balance things,"I understand that it is frustrating, but we should all be held accountable, you are not exactly innocent either....""I am not responsible for the action of my government and I am certainly not responsible for the action of my people's history.""What can WE do, as two people from nations that had made mistakes, to change things" NEVER"how can I change things"

These are not hard to see and do, but you need to be willing to see it and not bury your head in the sand and refuse to see the obvious just so you'd have that fantasy of peace and equality validated. A little disappointment and caution now is much better than insisting on your stand just so you won't admit that you were fooled. Consider the alternative!!!

There are Muslims out there who just want to worship at home and love that this is not an Islamic country and won't change a thing. There are Muslims out there who are not out to rule anything but there own little existence and are barely making it. They do not hate and do not want to destroy. Doing the above will bring them out and weed the ones that should be feared.

Sorry for the harshness, but we've learned and taught these things and we know it to be true. I had to teach these classes at one point, how to win THEM over, what to say to fool THEM;"THEM, being YOU."